Backlash over plan to give out ‘modesty ponchos’ at prom

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A school in Michigan has been criticised over threats to make students wear a “modesty poncho” if they fail to adhere to a strict dress code for their prom.

People on social media have supported students who posted photos of the ponchos, saying the policy highlighted society’s double standards towards men and women.

The dress code for the dance includes requirements such as “no exposed cleavage”, “no backless dresses” and “hemlines no shorter than one inch above the knee joint”.

Backlash over plan to give out ‘modesty ponchos’ at prom
Backlash over plan to give out ‘modesty ponchos’ at prom

Students were told they might be sent home if they flouted the dress rules but the problem came to a head when “modesty ponchos” were put on display around the Divine Child High School in Dearborn.

A note attached to the poncho read: “If your dress does not meet our formal dress requirements – no problem! We’ve got you covered – literally. This is our modesty poncho which you’ll be given at the door.”

As a result of complaints a letter has since been sent to parents stressing that the additional garments will not be handed out on the night.

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They are called “Modesty Ponchos” by administrators at Divine Child Catholic High School. It’s new this year to keep female students in line with the dress code at prom. What do you think?

— Jessica Dupnack (@JDupnackFOX2) April 30, 2018

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Eric Haley, principal of the Catholic school, wrote: “Our intention with displaying the poncho was never to make students feel uncomfortable but to remind all students of our formal prom dress policy which has not changed for several years.”

The teacher behind the “ponchogate” uproar, Mary O’Malley, told Fox 2: “We are trying to focus on the inner beauty of people and not draw attention to something that doesn’t need to have attention drawn to it.

“It was really intended as a deterrent and a really light-hearted one at that.”

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In online debate, there were calls for students to be allowed to just wear what they wanted to the prom.

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Modesty ponchos are disgusting. Making a girl feel so embarrassed and ugly on their prom night just for showing some shoulder! If a girl is confident and comfortable in the way they dress then that’s all that matters, modesty is kind of overrated in our times. #modestyponcho

— Rebecca Ward (@becky_l_w) May 1, 2018

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Cam I said: “Prom is supposed to be an event away from school so why have a dress code besides don’t show up naked?”

Others complained about what they felt was inherent sexism in prom dress codes.

Molly Ledford said she thought that dress restrictions were always harsher on girls than boys.

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Raising both a boy and a girl helped me realize that our ideas of modesty in society are super unfair. Reading about the prom #modestyponcho meanwhile boys frolic shirtless and free. Throw a #modestyponcho on that, fellas.

— Molly Ledford (@lunchmoneymusic) May 1, 2018

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And Alexa added: “Not once in my life have I seen a boy get dress coded. The dress code was created by men who were once the creepy little boys they made it for.

“Heaven forbid people know I have a chest or worse shoulders.”

Divine Child High School’s prom dress code for male students includes a requirement to be clean-shaven and, unlike female students, they cannot wear earrings.

‘My jeans had rips in them’

For some, the “modesty poncho” story has brought back memories of when their choice of dress was questioned at school.

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I remember being sent to the principals office because my jeans had rips in them. I then had to change into PE shorts. That was more important then attending history class apparently. #modestyponcho

— Chareth Cutestory (@meganoffortune) May 1, 2018

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But there has been humour too.

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My name is Modesty Poncho Prom but everyone who googles me thinks I’m Dearborn Christian Sharia.

— 🐧 𝘒𝘰𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘬𝘪, 𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘴. (@gthanku) May 1, 2018

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— Lindsay Crudele (@thelindsayist) May 1, 2018

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